Someone who has only known me for two months told me yesterday that I am still the same person I was 2 years and have the same values as I did two years ago and she was basing it off of the fact that I don't sleep around. You can grow up totally different than I did and you can have enough self-respect to not sleep around. Yes I may still have some of the same values but I am definitely not the person I was. I was a judgmental goody-goody Christian and if you were not following everything I believed in, we were no longer friends. Now, I would never have some friends that I have now because of their lifestyles. I wouldn't trade these friends I have now for anything because they are more honest and real than any friends I've ever had. My belief system has totally changed in a lot of ways. I'm not going to even begin to describe it on this thing. But I love the direction my life is going right now. It just kind of shocked me that someone who doesn't have any self-respect would judge me for having enough respect for myself to not use my body in that way.